Sup Peeps,

Have you ever felt alone? Hmm. My Husband left today with his Grandfather to tend to a family matter, which leaves the entire apartment to me! When my sister found out she screamed “Party!!” but I don’t think that will be happening haha. Tonight while resting on the couch with my earphones on, I started looking at the corners of my eyes. Never have I felt so small in my own space! While it’s true when the Munchkin describes that I prefer a “close knit” of people, somebody is always better than nobody. I’m not afraid, nor do I feel fear, but the truth is I’ve never been away from Eric for more than 24 hrs since we began living together. I guess this angst is my sappy way of expressing that I miss him haha. I can’t wait until morning! In fact I won’t…I’mma go see what the others are doing. Take care folks, sweet dreams ~Liz~

Good morning everyone,

I haven’t blogged in a long time! Blogging is certainly one of my New Years resolutions. I hope everyone had a good one. These few days have been jam-packed with great memories, but the one that has stood out the most is putting up the Christmas tree with my Husband. Having a difficult and busy childhood, he never had an opportunity to decorate a tree. I tried to help him rekindle that childhood feeling by helping him decorate the tree in our home. To say the least, it was great to share that with him. Emotional support in a relationship is important to exercise.

Ironically when I was a teen I use to love recording my daily life, I wonder what happened. My little sister use to give me great material, because I enjoyed recording her first steps in life. These days her life is understandably more complex. The last real dramatic talk I had with her included boys and career goals. The advice I gave her was what I followed, which was to follow her heart. Corny I know, but it works. When I was in her position, I was more involved with the world and enjoying my time alone. While keeping this leisure time I also set out rigorous goals and did my best to achieve them. There was even a point where I looked at all my plans and wondered if I had done the right thing. After all I’m only human(Regardless of what certain people think haha)! Everything turned out fine. Following your heart is good because not everything the outside world tells you is the truth!

It’s Saturday morning and after breakfast I’m going back to bed! Have a great day folks. ~Liz~

What up Peeps,

Recently I had some time to catch up with an old friend. Her mother was there with us. I was fascinated whilst listening to her call her Mother “Mom” because it was different from what I grew up calling my Mother. I’ve called my Mother “Mami” ever since I can remember and I can bet many years from now I’ll still use the same babyish touch to “mother.” In fact, I’m positive because even my mother still addresses my grandmother as “Mami.”

A distant family member on my mother’s side gave her a call and inquired about things. She also asked a touchy question: whether I invited the father to my wedding last year. Before our wedding, I gave this a great amount of thought. I examined that even though for the most part he was absent from of our lives (my mother and us three sisters), the only right thing to do in some cosmic way was to invite him. I might have regretted it if I hadn’t. I knew it might be difficult for him to be around many family members so nothing was forced on him and a private invitation was sent. He actually did show up and gave us his blessings, sparsely and then disappeared back to his world. I don’t think we owe him anything else. Anyhow, the wedding was great and everyone had fun.

 I found a picture that Ms.19 colored for me back when she was Ms. Elementary school, which I took off the walls from my bedroom in the old apartment. It’s not Picasso, but it came from someone I really loved and that’s why I kept it so long. We had a sentimental moment, looking at the picture together.

Anyway, life is good and family is happy. Take care peeps, got to go start my morning! ~Liz~

‘Sup Peeps,

Today on the morning news they were broadcasting an area in NYC where a parade will be held for the Major League Baseball players. As soon as Ms. 19 saw it, she rapidly got dressed and went straight to the spot! She is a Yankee fanatic. A few years ago when my cousins and I went to Yankee Stadium, I had a memorable experience when one of my cousins pointed out that we were on the huge giant screen. My first thought when I became aware of it was What the F*ck!?! Some genius tried very hard to get his face on screen by actin a fool, but I ended up on national television with my cousin’s ha ha. Our two seconds of fame was quick and when they pointed it out to me I just smiled and tried to remain calm!! Good times…good times haha.

I woke up earlier than my Husband this morning but I remained in bed enjoying the cool air on a warm summer morning. The sun hadn’t come up yet so I found no reason to break my peace. When Eric woke up his eyes his first moves were to sit up and get out of bed, but when he did he struggled to get to the upright position. I heard a groan, grunt and saw his shoulders shiver. I also heard his knee cap produce a cracking sound! Ouch!! I sure was surprised because he is one of the most consistently healthy and strong individuals that I know. Evidently he fell asleep the wrong way and woke up on the proverbial wrong side. Once again ouch! He eventually walked it off though.

Yesterday we went back to an old neighborhood next to a park. The park is quiet, especially during the morning hours. There’s a familiar eatery still standing that we use to frequent back in high school. As friends we would buy lunch or an afternoon snack and sit together in the park discussing different topics. As more than friends we continued our informal tradition. Yesterday we went back to the same spot, ate the same food, sat on the same bench and looked across to the same scene. Even though everything appeared the same to the eye, it wasn’t. But it’s because of this false appearance to the eye that helped us reconnect with our past and relish an old tradition. I clearly saw his intention for revisiting the area. While nature owns a timeless beauty that never changes even in different seasons, we as humans change within. Going back there helped us to appreciate the changes that have occurred for the better, as well as prove that our love and emotions for each other have stood the test of time. Talk about a peaceful morning! Oh I forgot to mention; the prices and menus did change haha.

I think I’ve said more than enough for today so I’ll wrap it up here. Stay cool, stay safe and enjoy the week peeps. ~Liz~

Sup Family,

Today is the 4^th of July, also known as Independence Day. I would like to focus on the word independence, especially in a relationship. Relationship and Independence sounds like two contradictory words, but really isn’t. A friend was relaying to me how she doesn’t feel like herself anymore, within her relationship with her Male friend. It made me examine my own relationship. As far back as I can remember, my Husband loved me for me just being me, as cliché as that sounds. We talk about everything and he grants me liberty to be an individual and continue to practice and enjoy the same lifestyle that I feel comfortable with. Whether it’s going out to dinner with some of my favorite girls, or staying home, he allows me to breathe easily. Naturally, on both parties there are ground-rules (some more important than others) that we agreed upon that will help us maintain our liberty as well as maintain a trusting, honest and loving relationship. Because neither he, nor I feel threatened in any way, we can enjoy our time together and not together, while still symbolically holding onto each other at all times. We devote ourselves to one another because we still see the person who we fell deeply in love for, opposed to someone who we contrive throughout the time span together. And quite frankly, that freedom to breathe makes me desire my Husband even more. Besides our memories together as one soul, we cherish the memories of viewing the other as an individual and the characteristics that go along. I can’t judge or speak for others but I hope they start talking about this, because a good discussion is a good place to start.  

In the vicinity of his our privacy my Husband expresses his fascination of me, as well as his love. When I hear him say “I love you,” it translates to…I love you for who you are and what you help me create as a team.

Anyways, didn’t plan to bore you guys with those thoughts haha. Today I have a list of things to do, including running downstairs to spend some time with Mom and Sis. Well in general, there is going to be some major bonding going on, but I loove it! I hope you all have a fun and safe Holiday!! Happy Independence Day!! ~Liz~

‘Sup Peeps,

If you live in the Eastern region of the United States of America, you’re already familiar with the heat wave that’s hit New York City. Yesterday, I tossed myself on the bed and went to a peaceful sleep that brought back memories. In my teen years, I would often toss myself on the bed similarly, while the air conditioner worked its magic. There was a sense of safety, while knowing that my Mother was not very far away. I’m thankful to still have that feeling of comfort and safety. Neither winter nor summer can out-compete the comfort of a safe mind!

Take care and stay cool and collected Peeps, Later. ~Liz~

Good Morning Peeps,

When a person emigrates from their homeland to the United States of America, they take residence in a mixed culture, but not one too far from home. Immediately, they realize that members of their own culture are not the same compared to their homeland. His or Her present residence members, seem more influenced by the new Western culture, with only traces of the homeland still within. This isn’t always the case, but for many clans, Western Influence consumes their original culture. I pondered on this subject and asked myself if the eradication of my own distinct culture would happen in our family’s future. I wondered if birth after birth would slowly decline our cultural roots to the point where we become…just Americans. Change can be good, and adaptation as well as evolution is important, but at what cost? Contrarily, inevitably we pass down our culture to the next generation, in response to the question of what would provide the more efficient life. I believe in my heart, keeping traditions alive, exploring the music, indulging in the food and many other things help to preserve a culture. From the beginning, this was the formula that worked in an ever changing world, and will most likely prevail years from now! What do you guys think?

I have to get my morning started, so thanks for reading and have a beautiful week guys. Be safe, stay cool and have fun. ~Liz~

Good Morning Friends and Family,I just glanced at some old posts and this would mark the third time I say “long times no see.” Haha. With unlimited posts and no restrictions, I feel free on WordPress. It’s been over a little over a month since my last entry! Ironically, life is so smooth that there isn’t many fresh thoughts to bring to the table, just well seasoned and savored ones.

Last week, Eric took a trip to visit one of his relatives in the Pennsylvania area. I tagged along, hoping to see something other than tall buildings! I certainly got what I wished for. Our family hosts were very gracious and gave us a place to rest for the night, but since Pennsylvania isn’t too far from New York City (granted that we came and left very early), we decided to head back home. While we were there, we took some personal time and snuck out of their way to do some exploring. Even walking around their neighborhood, had an abundance of trees and grass that isn’t familiar to many New Yorkers. Walking with my Husband, side by side, hand in hand, brought us back to humble days when we would share similar moments together. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a forest out there. There are still a lot of buildings to keep me busy haha. Our trip was fun and even though I enjoyed the quietude of Pennsylvania, I’m still a New Yorker at Heart.

Mothers Day was a blast, as me and my two lovely sisters spent the day with our Mother. What made it so special was the fact that we were all together like old times.

Finally, our first official anniversary as Husband and Wife is approaching soon, but we haven’t made plans. No matter plan comes up; if we do anything at all, the most important thing is that we are together. After many years together, every morning with a kiss, every night before bed with a kiss, every time just for the sake…with a kiss, assures me that we are happy. So it’s time for me to steal a few more hours sleep and start my Sunday! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. Be safe and stay cool peeps. ~Liz~

‘Sup everyone,

Long time no see…again, haha. Over the weekend, I went to my Mothers former apartment, which I also grew up in, and got to meet the new family. I went there on the behalf of my Mother, to give a small gift to the landlord. The landlord is a good elderly woman, who has been like a second Grandmother to us. She introduced me to the new family. Later, Mom came along to visit them as well. When we left, we were pleased that the apartment went to a nice, happy and seemingly caring family. Walking home together, Mom reflected on her happiness here in her new home. I’m happy they moved, because they love it here, and everyone enjoys having them here. Any move or change can be difficult, but I find with the right amount of heart, it can be a smooth transition.

Life if good. Marriage is as joyous as the first day! Family is good too! Catch you on the flip side peeps. Take care and stay cool. ~Liz~

Peeps!

Long time no see, haha. Just a few quick thoughts to share to aspiring Munchkins.

One day you’ll wake up and look at the mirror, view and feel different. Don’t fight it! Embrace it! And the other thought is that if we really tried to, everyone can find at least one thing wrong with another person. Life is about looking past that one flaw, not berating a person because of it! We all have at least one flaw.

Ok one more thought, since I just remembered. I promise last one haha. Whether you knew a person your whole life, a sister, brother, cousin or otherwise, if you were given an option that you don’t like, or you were asked for help in a situation that you don’t think is suitable to you, then you don’t have to do anything! Just because your a blood relative, doesn’t mean you have to help! As a human, one of your god given rights is to say Yay or Nay! Example? If you had a family gambler who asked you for $5,000 and that person put the water works on begging and pleading, you don’t always have to succumb.

That’s all for now, catch you on the flip side. ~Liz~